Nov 30, 2013

Apologies.... You know some people have a problem with apologizing and it can it can cause an uproar. Some people don't want to be the bigger person and just want to wallow in self pity, that they have too much pride because they thought they were right and the other person was totally wrong. No matter how big the situation is and if you really cared about that person then you should just forget about that pride and say those words to save yourself from the time and energy. It's definitely hard for some people to admit that they were wrong, because they feel like the other person was in the wrong. But little do people know that saying "I'm sorry" can mean so much and could change a persons perspective on not just themselves but how they think of others. A lot of people take being the bigger person the wrong way, because then they feel like they are the superior one and that people should praise them for being that bigger person. It doesn't make you superior, it just makes you look like a fool because it wasn't sincere and you only did it just to make yourself look good. Saying "I'm sorry" should come from the heart not just from the slip of the tongue. Facing that pride is a tough challenge, but if you have the heart and decency to admit that you were wrong then you're onto the right track. This could save a lot of destruction of some people and help fix any hatered towards anyone, because of that one line it can help any damaged relationships. It can be from friendships, boyfriend and girlfriend relationships, or just family relationships, either way standing up to that pride can mean so much to a person. You and that person may still have your differences but at least you two are willing to try to work through them. Don't be afraid, tell that person how you feel. It may not be all that you have expected but at least you can move on and learn from it. You can hate a person and even that is a strong word, but even as you very dislike a person it still does not mean that you can't apologize. It can take a lot out of a person but it would save a lot of trouble and confusion for most people. Nobody really realizes that by saying "I'm sorry" doesn't make you weak but it makes you stronger. 

💋 Kesha 💋